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Tuesday, February 12, 2008

I'm sorry

Tomorrow is a historic day for Australia. After the previous conservative government refused for almost 12 years to apologise to Australia's indigenous peoples for policies that removed thousands of Aboriginal children from their families, our new government has made it one of their first items of business.

The apology will be delivered tomorrow in Canberra, on behalf of the Australian government and does in no way attribute guilt to today's generation. Our new Prime Minister Kevin Rudd says it reflects on the past mistreatment of Aboriginal people. The parliament will apologise to the indigenous people for breaking up families and for causing enormous pain, degradation and suffering.

Although the apology is close to the heart of many people, the previous government under John Howard persistantly refused to bow to the pressure, claiming that saying sorry would place the blame on the public and leave the commonwealth liable to a flood of compensation claims.

Between 1910 and the early 1970s, about 100,000 Aboriginal children were forcefully removed from their parents and held in prison-like facilities before being placed with new families, based on the premise that they would have a better life growing up with white people's culture and lifestyle. Most of the stolen children were of mixed-blood Aboriginal heritage. A nation-wide national inquiry called the "Bringing Them Home Report" has shown that the majority of the children from the stolen generation suffered long-term psychological trauma.




The apology will read that "we today take this first step by acknowledging the past and laying claim to a future that embraces all Australians. A future where this Parliament resolves that the injustices of the past must never, never happen again."

Although an apology alone is not enough, I am grateful that we finally have a government in place who can see that reconciliation is necessary in order to move forward together in peace and with mutual respect. A considerable number of people in Australia still feel that they should not say sorry for something they are not personally responsible for, and some of them feel quite strongly about it. Some friends and I were insulted today on Facebook as "commie bastards" and told to "get fucked" because we put our Facebook status to "I'm sorry". What those people don't understand (apart from the fact that the connection to communism is also very unclear) is that it is not about attributing guilt. It is about recognising that unspeakable trauma has been inflicted on many families and that considering we also live on their land, we need say on behalf of our ancestors that we are sorry for what happend. I too, say sorry.

11 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Holy Crap! That's so sad. I'm sorry too.

February 13, 2008 at 3:44 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think people (and governments) do well-intentioned things sometimes, only to realize later that they were wrong.
Information changes, perceptions change, experience teaches.
At this point, it isn't about who is to blame, it's about healing and reconciliation and doing the right thing, and acting like adults.
Calling other people names (ala Facebook) is childish. Maybe in 50 or 100 years, they will learn to apologise too.

February 13, 2008 at 4:32 AM

 
Blogger MYSTIC said...

I think a lot of well intentioned people screw things up at times. We never see the unplanned affects of our actions. We all do it, not just the Aussies. To recognize a mistakes helps us prevent making the same kind of mistake in the future. Failing to recognize our responsibility dooms us to repeat our mistakes.

February 13, 2008 at 8:51 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Amen to that Betts! Thank goodness the "I'm sorry" is finally being said as an acknowledgement of the terrible suffering and injustice.
I cannot imagine how awful it must have been for those children and families to be torn apart like that.
Well meaning (ignorant)governments should say sorry when they cock it up ... Ozzie or otherwise!

February 13, 2008 at 2:11 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Those movies clips are from Rabbit Proof Fence. I rented it and cried my butt off....

Amazing isnt it? This does not only apply to specific races, but to everyone in some point of time.

`callie

February 14, 2008 at 1:09 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hugs. Happy Valentines Day, Bettina.

February 15, 2008 at 6:31 AM

 
Blogger ANNA-LYS said...

That is a very good start on Valentines Day!

Hope You had a Lovely Valentines Day!

Hugs

February 15, 2008 at 5:27 PM

 
Blogger Paulinha said...

Hey,
it has been ages since I last visited here. I missed it heaps, but not as much as I miss you!!!
I really want to chat, find out how everything is going, know how it feels to be a real Aussie (excuse me!!!), the plans to go back home, all those things. I want to call. Maybe I'll do it soon. I have to get some courage... it ain't easy, still!!!
Beijão grande!!!
Te amo!!!

February 16, 2008 at 7:55 AM

 
Blogger ysfb said...

Happy VDay. Rabbit Proof Fence was recommended to me by a friend. Personally I would've never watched it but I'm glad I did. I remember reading the background of the movie and how the lead kid actress actually ran away from the set just like the real life girl ran away. I think they said they found her at the bus station or something like that trying to get back home, how ironic.

February 16, 2008 at 8:27 AM

 
Blogger JackalopeAndy said...

great stuff.

February 19, 2008 at 7:53 AM

 
Blogger Jerrster said...

where'd ya go mate?

February 21, 2008 at 10:49 AM

 

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